So, suppose you like someone. And it turns out that person is trans and/or bi. When would you want them to come out to you? How would you feel if they came out at a different time from that? And when they did come out, what sort of feels would it generate in you? Obviously, my imagination can come up with all sorts of ideas, but I'd like to get some input about what real people would feel, and how they would react. And it seems likely that it would be different for people outside of the LGBTQ+ community, seeing as how it's not something you're likely to have thought about in advance.