What is one word that can cover the meaning of these three terms? Shot-down (as in tried to pick-up a woman and was rejected) Stood up (As in you appeared for a date and she never showed) Friendzoned (as in she says "can we just be friends?" Sort of the same as being rejected, but not an outright "eww, you're a creep" type rejection.) Context: "Over the years, I'd been shot-down, stood-up, and friendzoned so many times that I had lost all desire to pursue a meaningful relationship; I'd become jaded toward women." I was thinking "jilted" but I think that implies more of you had a woman, then she dumped you. Basically, I'm looking for something that implies that the narrator had trouble getting women, and got royally fucked over by the few he did get.