"Mary and I are friends." Is this sentence grammatically correct? I say yes. It means that "Mary is a friend; I am a friend." Correct? Thanks.
Mary and I are friends. <--WIN Mary and me are friends. <-- FAIL We are friends. <-- WIN Us are friends. <--FAIL The wins are wins for the same reason and the fails are fails for the same reason. Mary and I killed Peter, Greg, and Larry. Gruesome as this tale may be, and complex as the subsequent trial may be, the plurality of subjects and objects has no effect on whether they are subjects or objects. Mary and I are both defendants. Peter, Greg and Larry are all the injured (and in this case, deceased) parties. Both legally and grammatically. [Mary and I] killed [Peter, Gred, and Larry.]