I can't stand the kind of love where somebody is in it for themselves or to say that they have a girl/boyfriend. They don't truely love eachother and when they kiss there's no passion or joy in it. It's just an act to show of for their own damn selves. Now, I'm not complaining about a personal expierence or relationship I am in, no it's just that I can't help but notice the thousands of kids around me trying to be older than they are. It seems that to have material love makes them cool or seem "older". My friend is victim of material love and when his ex dumped him he seemed crushed and devastated, even when what they had didn't seem real. Is it just me, or is love losing its meaning to today's society and being replaced with selfishness and lust?