LOL that's exactly what happened to me... I spent a year doing some self examination after all I'd been through and I felt super lonely then I started thinking oh hell forget it.. and BOOM! I met someone.
Same here. Well, sort of. I had actually just recently split with my horrible ex, and I was reading Eat, Pray, Love and decided to do something similar and just basically re-figure out who I was as a person, not as a girlfriend. And then I met Joel.
Exactly the same thing happened to me! I just got out of a horrid r/ship, decided to get my act together and be my own person - and then suddenly Matt was there. I've been with him almost 2 years now, and I couldn't imagine anyone else in my life. How strange!
Um... You were saying? You see, there's now this girl... Note to self: give up giving up. And please don't ask for details yet. As I haven't the foggiest how that happened.
Just stop trying to try to figure out and just be Go with the flow man. *Poster in under medicartion and will now shut-up*
I'm a hopeless heart breaker. Every year I tend to brake the hart of a least one boy I really car about. I love people and it shows. A lot. I'm shiny eyes and enthusiastic around my fiends and really give them my attention. Usually resulting them falling in love, or sort of falling in love and me breaking their heart. I'm not planning on changing my ways, really loving the people around you is awesome but always try to get my signal more and more clear. But still it still results in friends falling in love with me despite what I say. I'm quite homo-romatical, and bisexual, and prefer to just sleep with people I know really well, which don't help the confusion either. Since that means that i end up sleeping with my male frinds evry now and them (the one ehos hard tend to brake) or cause yelosy among my frinds by doing so. Then there is this. 90% of my friends are male, and there only one female friend outside family I see and talk to on a weekly basis at this time in my life. That kind of sux. I love my male friends, but female often have loads of other awesome things to add to a friendship. Or a hypothetical relationship. Back to my big bunch or male friends. As "the girl" in the gang boys tend to come to trust you in all sort of emotional matters, and you end up the confident of everyone. Sometimes in a pseudo girlfriend role. I love the trust and being there for my friends, but sometimes i just want to shout. "FFS, you don't need me, talk to each other. It's not forbidden to talk with the other men about emotional stuff." If any of my friends come stumbling across it, it's not you. Or your only a small part of it. Its been a pattern found in my life since I were 14. Gah. Things are complicated.
That's my boy. I've been in almost your exact same position recently, after all the **** with Susie I decided to just sit back and forget about everything, then I went to my friend Seb's party and met some of his girlfriend's friends, then spent about an hour alone in a room with one of them, talking. That's not a euphamism for anything, we were just talking (although most of the other party guests evidently thought otherwise ). It's kinda bizarre that I've never really had that with somebody I just met, doubly bizarre because she didn't seem to be weirded out at all by anything that I was saying, quite the opposite in fact. We now have about five private jokes about me secretly being an American who hunts trees with flamethrowing shotguns, one of us being imaginary, her owning an invisible hat (which goes nicely with her... everything), me owning an invisible Top Hat that is also pink, and that she alone is the person who can stop my world domination plan because... well we didn't actually figure that one out. Plus she likes Doctor Who, which is also a bonus. And she finds me funny. Like, actually humorous. But yeah, completely bizarre.
I'm glad you are lucky in love, Dante and Xeno. And W176, I totally get you. "As 'the girl' in the gang boys tend to come to trust you in all sort of emotional matters, and you end up the confident of everyone. Sometimes in a pseudo girlfriend role." I'm a bit put out from being in that position so often, to be honest. I'm sorry you're having such complicated situations and conflicting emotions right now.
Well, in my world, my best friend is obsessed with trying to set me up with one of his friends. I think he got that idea because he keeps saying things like, "Oh, why are you still single? There's no excuse for you to be single; you're too wonderful," and I am joking back that we all cant find beautiful, intelligent, awesome guys like he's got so easily. Still, he's determined to find someone worthwhile for me. I keep declining... I'm not really interested in being set up. It sounds so unlike me, and kind of... erm, pathetic? Besides, I feel like I'm really too busy for anything right now. I'm sure I would have just as much fun with a guy as without one like right now, so why put in the effort when I feel just fine and really too busy? I'm not meeting anyone who really clicks with me in that sort of way anyway. So judging from everyone's comments, that must mean that the man of my dreams is right around the corner, hmm?
I hope this does not sound like me over-reacting, but when you ask a girl if she fancies hanging out at some point during the week and they respond with "yessss, i do " rather than say "maybe if I'm free" or "sure, I'll think about it", is that something to be happy about?
I just love how he finds language choices cute. I'd totally love for you to visit England, Wrey, because I think you'd love our quirkyness. It's always the little differences that make visiting new places so much fun.
I am incredibly immature when it comes to the UK and US variance of 'fanny' especially when Americans are saying something perfectly innocent about their bottoms.... not so innocent here!
