The not happy thread

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  1. Neha

    Neha Beyond Infinity. Contributor

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    hey that twice was on the day I got it, and the day after. I've had it for more than a week now, and I drive beautifully...You should have seen me today, inside the Defence Colony...we were having so fun wheezing through!(Without helmets)


    And aww... so sweet of you to be concerned.*hugs Bobbers*
     
  2. Eoz Eanj

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    I think our parents will always consider us as kids, in spite of cultural differences, lol.
     
  3. Neha

    Neha Beyond Infinity. Contributor

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    lol, I'd prefer to stay apart and be a kid....at least I'd have a life o' my own!
     
  4. Lavarian

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    Patience, Neha. Your time will come.
     
  5. Neha

    Neha Beyond Infinity. Contributor

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    then I'll have a husband to do the babying...*rolls eyes*


    Ok, I'll stop the self-pity ranting now. lol
     
  6. Lavarian

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    Only if you let them. Personally, I think you're probably to fierce and scary to allow that.
     
  7. Neha

    Neha Beyond Infinity. Contributor

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    Thanks for the vote of confidence.


    *sigh*

    guys!
     
  8. Shadow Dragon

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    Aww, I swear most guys aren't that way. Though from a guys point of view, it seems that girls always pick the a**holes over other guys for some reason.
     
  9. Lavarian

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    QFT. It's aggravating.
     
  10. Azhigher

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    Chicks dig the bad guys. It's exciting for them.
     
  11. HearlessHeart

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    don't worry you stop caring after awhile
     
  12. Cogito

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    Lavarian, Azhigher: Do you realize you are stereotyping approximately half the population?
     
  13. hiddennovelist

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    Yeah, guys. Stop it.

    For the record, I don't go for the bad guys.
     
  14. Eoz Eanj

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    I don't go for bad guys, either. I wouldn't be so angry with my guy friends if they only had the capacity to be dickheads.

    Lol.
     
  15. Ashleigh

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    Well, I guess that made me unhappy today!

    Chicks do not dig 'Bad guys', and being mistreated and insulted by somebody is NOT 'exciting' for any female. Girls are allowed to make mistakes, as do guys - ever noticed how SOME guys infact go after girls that clearly dislike them and will never be good for them? completely blind to all the girls that would be perfect for them?

    It's just human nature - we make mistakes.

    The fact that they've picked someone else over you gives you no right to stereotype women, as though they're mindless idiots attracted only to bullies, and totally dismiss you alleged 'Nice guys'.

    Frankly, Sexist guys that stereotype me would be the biggest put-off of all.

    Also, I'm pretty sure your hypothesis suggests that women in nasty, criminal, or even abusive r/ships have asked for it - do I need to outline how wrong that is?

    Perhaps 'Nice guys' should re-assess themselves before assuming it's the female's fault that they don't appeal to them :)

    /Mega-biatch rant over.
     
  16. sophie.

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    I'm stressed. Stress stress stress. Aaargh.
    Buggerbuggerarsebollocks. And I have induction crap on wednesday. *tears out hair*
     
  17. hiddennovelist

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    I don't think they really meant to stereotype all women...

    I also don't think they meant to suggest that at all... :eek:

    But I do get where you're coming from.

    I'm unhappy because Joel was off yesterday and today...and I worked all day yesterday and today...ugh. Nice holiday weekend...
     
  18. Eoz Eanj

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    Man, my throat is swollen like a balloon.
    I don't want to be getting sick, pleassee!
    = (
     
  19. Dr. Doctor

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    Fair enough, but lol, just like two pages ago it was the girls stereotyping the guys instead. All that stuff about guys being immature and unable to think for anyone but themselves was just as bad, so don't act like it's only the guys doing the stereotyping here.

    Guys: If a woman picks a "bad guy" over you then it's probably because you're doing something to make them not pick you. Don't blame the women if you've got issues about your own personality you need to iron out. If anything it's probably just an issue with a certain girl, not all of them. Most 'nice guys' who say crap like that are really not the kind of guys a girl would want to date anyway, if they're going to be conceited enough to suggest that they know what a girl likes better than she does herself.

    On the flip side, I was never really given much chance by a lot of girls in High School. Guess that shows me to be shy or whatever. Still though, saying they only like bad guys is stupid.

    I'm rather unhappy about the fact that my grandfather has been hospitalized. ):
     
  20. Neha

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    It's not the girl's fault the "perfect guy" she picked turned put to be slime disguised in human form.

    I'm totally doing bad on the test tommorw...there goes my dream of topping the class, haven't studied ANYTHING!

    Annnnnnnnnnnnd. I'm cranky.

    Did I mention I was in an accident and my leg hurts like hell?

    Edit-*huggles*

    Eoz...hope that ain't true, and you're not sick.

    Dr. hope it's not serious and he gets out soon.
     
  21. Azhigher

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    You're absolutely right, I should have said "some" women are like that. I didn't mean to lump the entire female population into the same category.

    How can you speak for EVERY female? I've heard females admit this fact, and scores more that wouldn't say it make it clear through their actions. I'm not saying ALL women are like that, but it's not an uncommon trait. And I wouldn't call it a mistake for a guy to pursue a woman who doesn't show an interest in him, I'd call it a challenge.


    Sounds like you're making the assumption that my opinions are derived from being passed over. That would be incorrect, I'm actually engaged to my first choice :D And for the record, I've never stated nor implied that I was one of the "Nice Guys" ;)

    I don't know how you inferred all of that from an eight word post...

    Finally, we agree! I think you're 100% right about that.

    I respect your opinion on this matter and if my original post seemed like I was trying to degrade all females, I apologize.

    Back on topic:
    Doctor: Sorry to hear about your grandfather =(

    Neha: That sucks. It's hard to study when you're cranky haha. Hope your leg feels better!
     
  22. Ashleigh

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    Thank you!

    They can deny their implications all they like, but the whole 'Girls only go for bad guys' thing really is just a way of justifying their own knockbacks in the past most of the time. Yes, I can go over-board, but to be honest, the same principles they used in their posts DO apply to alot of situations - whether they meant to imply it or not. And, I CAN say that about all women - those who do go for the nasty guys are usually insecure and unable to see a life without either mistreatment or some sort of criminal, or untrustworthy activity from their patner - which, If 'Nice guys' could stop feeling sorry for themselves for one moment, they'd realise that this is something the poor woman couldn't control.

    If a girl goes for a bad guy in any other case, you could probably make a safe bet that she's a 'bad girl' too - and is that really the kind of girl a truly 'nice guy' wants to be with?

    I think not ;)

    To Dr ^^

    Sorry to hear that :(
     
  23. Xeno

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    I'm not happy 'cause I got a headache again last night, and even after a paracetamol it didn't go away until 5 in the morning. Anyone care to guess how many hours sleep I got? :(
     
  24. SonnehLee

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    three?
     
  25. Xeno

    Xeno Mad and Bitey Contributor

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    one! :(
     
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