Why are you making all the characters have the same personal traits? Wouldn't that make them plastic dolls assembled in the same factory? Also, I don't know if it's your limited vocabulary, but I think "tough love" as a common term may not be suitable for all the characters, but then I was not fully able to understand many parts of your posts, so I may be wrong.
i'm not sure you know what 'tough love' really is... better google it... and i agree that having so many characters act in the same way isn't a good idea...
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