I don't know if I would go THAT far. It was a good test of my mental fortitude. I only went a LITTLE crazy.
Do not worry too much, I am certain the wedding will be a complete success and fun to boot. Hello everyone. Good afternoon.
It is stressful, Hidden. Just remember to enjoy your day. It isn't so much about the celebration, the food, or the cake...it's about you and Joel. The union you are creating. When the party is over and the guests have gone home, you two are beginnning a new phase of your life. Try and hold on to that. Of course saying, "I'm over it" can be helpful too...should any unwanted surprises come up,
No, not as of yet. Perhaps one day. Chimmy is quite insightful on the matter. In many respects, it is a time only for you two, the material is secondary.
The important thing is getting married. Having a wedding is secondary. The day of will go by SO fast and hte emotions will be SO high that whether the flowers on the cake are the same shade of pink as hte bridesmaid dresses and other such nonsense will not matter at all
Thanks, guys. I have to keep reminding myself to not try and control every little detail, or I'll go crazy. Curse my and my micromanaging tendencies!
You have a planner though don't you? Easier to let go of things if you have someone else who can take care of things.
I don't. I'm not sure if I could handle having one, I'm not great with delegating or relinquishing control of these things...
I did it all myself. Who better to know what I want than me? But, in hindsight...delegating a bit more might have saved me a lot of stress.
Yeah, I'm sure having someone to help me would make things a lot easier, but at this point, it's a little late for that. I've been trying to remember to ask Joel for help more, but even that's hard for me to do, lol.
I have never seen a drunken brawl..I don't imagine it being too pleasant. Congrats on finding your harmonica Sid