Wayfarer's Tavern

First of all, an early birthday HUG for you Em. (I know it is still a few days off but still.)

I agree with you, the whole switching adults plan stinks. As far as those evil thoughts go... you are a rgeat person Em, I can't imagine anyone notwanting to actually talk to you. I'm sure it wasn't an obligation.

 

Thanks, Rumpy. And see?! I'm not the only one who thinks this!! It's just. GR.

People keep telling me I need to voice my opinion. But. I'll just end up a sappy crying bunch of mess. UGH.

 

That's because of a chapel full of pews.

 

Evening, all.

 

Hey, Em. Listen, mt ex husband and I were involved in church ministry for over 15 years. There were so many times we had to move on and leave the congregation we were responsible for. Most of the time it was because of the Overseer just liked to keep the churches fresh, other times it was because we felt we had accomplished all we could. The point is, however, it was time to go and this was difficult for the people who were close to us.

As hard as it is, you just have to pick up and carry forth with what you know to be right. Get involved, voice your opinion, state your concerns. You have as vital a voice as the next person. Your character will grow from this. You are in my thoughts.

 

Afternoon.

 

Heya Down, how goes life?

 

Not bad, I have the rest of the day off from study today, so that's nice.

 

Hello Down. Hope your well.

Hmmm...I should go get me something to munch.

 

Wakes = so very hard.

 

Sorry Mandie. Who passed?

 

John is our pastor, he is married to nancy. They haven't been moved. John is still there at every church service and meeting and whatever. Nancy just resigned from her position. And is still living right where they have since they got here.

I'm so sick of this stupid cycle. Makes me want to quit. Ugh.

 

My grandpa died on Friday.

 

I am so sorry M.



Em, don't give in. I know it's hard but I also know you have got to be a great influence on so many lives there.

 

Thanks, Rump.

It's hard enough with him. I don't know how I would survive going through this for someone I was close with. My grandpa is the first of my immediate family/circle of friends to die.

 

HUGS Mandie. I lost my own grandpa two years ago. It isn't easy. If there is ever anything I can do, just ask.

 

Thanks, it means a lot. Anyway, Must get to bed. Gotta be up early for the funeral. Night guys.

 

I want to. It doesn't feel like I'm making any difference to anyone. But heck. I'm not even allowed to leave. So. What's the point of even thinking about leaving?

 

Good night.

 

Em, you will never know, this side of eternity, what a major difference you make to those around you. That being said, you are hurting and it would be nice for someone to take care of you.

 

I'm so sorry this has upset you. Just remember, we don't go for the people. There is a greater cause. Hugs to you. I wish you well.

 

I should be used to this. It's happened before. Ugh.

 

Yes, to me too. And you know, Em, I have had to ride some rough waves, church is a hard place when you're going through something like this. You just have to be strong, and I know that sounds like such a cliche, but it is true. You be strong. Set the better example. And please know, I understand. Hugs

 

I'm here! Am I too late? I'm sorry.

Aw, Em, I so feel for you with this. However you're feeling though, I refuse to believe that she only talked to you because she was paid to. You're such a sweet, motivated, kind person, no way could anyone who knows you not want to talk to you. I hope Nancy comes back to church soon so you can talk to her and feel better!

And I hope your next youth pastor sticks around! I know what it's like to just cycle through church leader after church leader, and it really can get you down. Don't let it make you feel like your leaders don't care about you though. I can't imagine anyone meeting you and not being able to care about you.

I agree with Rumpole. Don't let what's going on around you discourage you, because you never know what impact your actions are having on those around you. I hope your church finds a youth pastor who is willing to stick around and offer the support and encouragement that you guys need, but even if you do keep going through leaders, don't let it stop you from being the bright, hardworking, happy person you are!

I'm glad you had a good birthday party, by the way! Happy early birthday!

 

Heya Tingles. >.< ( I should SO be asleep right now.)