I see well if it makes it any easier one of my friend, no longer, shagged her younger cousin once removed in the her living room whilst her husband, a DJ by profession and also a friend, was sleeping in their bedroom next door. I think your story is not half as bad as this but you can disagree if you wish.
I remember a colleague admitting to me that he had slept with 2 women at the same time. (threesome). Said he was ashamed but I cant help but think now he was actually boasting. Seemed he liked me to know the fact. Or even he was missing that kind of decadent rock star lifestyle. he was a very charming guy, loved by all.
Yeah, let's just say our dumb-ass hero dated a woman that did not give him sex, met a woman who only wanted sex, dated both long enough to completely freak out, dumped the former, got overwhelmed by the later, ran back to the former, married her after five years - a colossal disaster, got divorced, foreswore human relationships for four years, and married a saintly woman that I've he made miserable for these nineteen of twenty years. The end. Where's the go back button? Then again, if not, he'd still be in Kuwait, in the American sector, these last twenty years. Fade to black...
So this raises an interesting question. By what standard are we judging thing as worst? Because there are things that one side would consider the worst of villainies, while the other side wouldn't really care so long as everyone involved was a consenting adult. To be honest, I would put being in a threesome as less horrible than shoplifting. "Marry, and you will regret it; don’t marry, you will also regret it; marry or don’t marry, you will regret it either way." - Kierkegaard
Honestly...? In my youth, I kinda considered myself a "mercenary" and started fights with other kids for money. WE did actually, a small clique of similarly minded boys, we called ourselves "The Club" like some kind of superhero team lol. That's what I expect people would say was "the worst", I personally never saw a problem with it, people couldn't fight for themselves so we did it for them for some quick cash. True story I was one of the few kids in my school who treated Gay kids with any respect, so one of my friends was Gay--I think he had a crush on me or something but I let him down as easy as I could. Anywho, he hit on some other boy who was straight and turned him down...not as nicely as me, so he came and offered me like twenty bucks to beat the kid down so I did. I didn't take the money though cause he was my friend. Not the "worst" thing, I think, but I'm sure people will find some moral issues with mercenarism and stuff.
Yeah, problematic choice of words. The point I'm making is, though, that different groups and cultures rate different acts along various sliding scales of bad to worstness. So, in some cultures having a threesome would land you as being a pretty Shady Bob, while in others people would probably look at you cockeyed if you hadn't.
Interesting. I too will not reveal my worst things, but thinking about them, I'm less concerned about them than the things that I regret the most. Regret is far more leechlike, sucking the life out of me and far more clingy. While I might regret the worst things I've done, the worst things are not even in my top 5 regrets.
I don't think a lot of people will willingly give out their worst actions on an internet forum - simply put, you (or at least myself) is gambling a lot with this and the repercussions could be severe whether they be social, legal, economic or otherwise. It is also my opinion that is it a much too sensitive, private and (as mentioned) dangerous question to ask here. What if, let say, your boss/wife/etc... sees these posts and recognises your name/tag? Secrets exists for a reason. In regards to myself, If ever I meet any of you in person, then ask me then. But otherwise, this is much too public, I will keep it to myself. But on a more serious note, I wonder how many actually regret the 'worst thing they have ever done'. You certainly could be ashamed of it, or perhaps your are indifferent (or accepting, perhaps even glad) you have done it, but you would never admit so. Interesting thoughts about the morality of people being involved here. No need to answer this part. I am not asking, just making a note.
The worst thing I ever did is a matter of perspective. What I feel most guilty about is the cowardly act of NOT throwing my high school English teacher out of a second story window. He deserved it.
W. O. W. Out of all that's happened, my brain says that the worst thing I've ever done was when I ran away from home, hitchhiked and got lost in a city when I was about eight or nine I think it was. Could have been seven though. And then I lied about why I ran and lied about having left a note. And I had been planning this for a while. I used to run away a lot, to be honest.
And has this Mustang spirit taken you around the world yet? Cause if you can throw caution to the wind at 7, Route 66, the trans-Siberian Rail, the Haaj, and the sub-Continent are calling you, my friend.
This made me laugh. And I want to travel. But my grandmother is feircely overprotective. Maybe I shouldn't have ran. XD ^^'
I don't know if it is the worst thing I did but I just thought of something kinda funny and wrong. when I was a kid I had this toy worm sitting in an apple and I would sing to my older sister for the longest time "you my worm wife, my worm wife. You my worm wife, my worm wife!" And she would get so mad until she started crying and saying she didn't want to be a worms wife. So I used that worm agaisnt her for the longest time.
One time I got with a girl who'd just broken up with my best friend, and she turned me against him for a spell. This obviously isn't the worst thing I've done but still wasn't my brightest moment. Luckily him and I are still best friends, stronger than ever. The "worst" thing I've ever done is try to get back together with an ex after not talking for a year.
