Sorry if the question is obvious, but going through a traumatic time at the moment (one i really don't want to explain on a public forum). Ususally i write as a de-stresser but anything from that doesn't make any sense, though can come out with ideas to work with later on. I however do feel very strongly regarding the subject matter in question. So I have two questions: 1) Would you just start writing even if its still very raw or just make notes & plan for later on, when things are calmer? 2) Is there ever a good length of time to leave things?
That sort of thing usually depends on the writer - some people can just write out of nowhere and come up with a coherent plot, others need to plan out some things first. It can also depend on what kind of story you're writing. If you want to write something with a complex plot, or a mystery story, it might be easier to take some notes and sort out the important details before you begin writing. Or if you're writing a historical story, or a story on a subject you are somewhat unfamiliar with, and need to do some research on first. On a side note, I'm sorry that you're going through a rough time. Hope things work out for you.
Thanks suddenly BANSHEES, What I didn't get across (slap wrist) is that I want to write about the traumatic event, its something I feel needs to be dealt with, My heart is screaming to write it now, but my head is saying to wait for a bit. Guess I could use nanowrimo as a way to get it down. Sorry there are times when I need to get something down, and don't think it through. I'll work on that for future posts
I think that's an ideal place for journalling. Write it all down in your journal (you do keep a journal, don't you?) and then when you are writing something with a character who goes through a similar trauma you have all the hot-from-the-experience stuff in your journal to pick and choose from, edit and use.
I do try and journal, but I don't always do it. Guess its time to start again. At least journalling is very calming
If it was me, I would write it immediately. You don't want the emotion to fade or lesson over time. You can always take out on a whim, but you cannot add in raw emotion later.